A recent development is Adaline using art to express her emotions...namely anger. When she gets angry at you for any number of reasons, she stomps away and huffs. Soon she returns with a piece of paper. She angrily hands it over to you and leaves with more stomping and huffing. The picture reveals everything: a drawing of the person in question with a large "X" over them. You mess with Adaline: you get X-ed.
If you're lucky, she "hearts" and "flowers" you after a brief separation. It's her artistic interpretation of forgiveness, I guess.
It was very fun to be with my dad the artist because he set the kids up in his studio to paint with stuff I'll never have in our apartment (pictures below). At one point the kids were on top of a huge drawing they were working on together. Some sort of argument took place, followed by mutual life-size X-ing out of each other, and resolved in hearts and flowers. They rushed to tell me the good news (that they forgave each other without my intervention). I wish all conflict resolution was that easy! Processing anger through art is much more calm than the hair-pulling and hitting that usually occur around here. Maybe I should market the "X" technique...for adults as well as children?
3 comments:
that is hilarious! can't believe how grown up they're getting! wish we could see y'all! love and miss you!
Hey Laura! I haven't seen you in years but somehow got linked to your blog....so fun to see your kids! By the way, you have got to post pictures of these "X" drawings - that is really funny.
-Elizabeth Sprunt Jones
Good to hear from you Elizabeth! I tried to link to your profile, but it wouldn't let me...I'd love to have a peek at your blog if you have one. It's been a long time!
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