The bigger adjustment than starting school is that they are in separate classrooms. Adaline has enjoyed her new freedom, but Arthur is struggling as was expected. I thought that he would express his loss in being sad or not wanting to go to school. Instead, he is angry and fights more with his sister. He is even more demanding of her--expecting her to play whatever he wants and unwilling to accept her refusals. He just chases her around screaming, "You're stupid! You're hateful! You hurt my feelings!" Try explaining that to the other parents at the playground.
Adaline pretends to be oblivious to his frustrations. I think she enjoys this additional power that she has over him. I'm fumbling around trying to correct both of their issues. I'm hoping that it all mellows out eventually because I'm not proving to have much wisdom in dealing with this. This is stretching them in new ways, and I think it is good for them to grow up a little. The Galt Twin Team is breaking up a little for the first time--sad, but necessary.
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Uhhh....sorry, but the answer is No.
Hey! Welcome back! So you decided to send them to preschool after all. You weren't sure when we talked early in the summer. Glad at least one of them is enjoying it. Transitions are hard even if they're good ones, I'm finding. Yeah for you to have some time for yourself!!!
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